im close friends with a guy and really like him. we spoke about dating-he said there wasnt chemistry ? we've spent so much time together-mainly at work then he said he hasnt been around me much socially to tell if theres chemistry. hes not exactly great looking but i love him for his personality. hes now rubbing my nose in the fact i like him by pretending to date a model off facebook they chat by messenger-shes 23 hes 40 and he keeps going on about her at his house all the time. shes live in the states hes from the uk ? why does he feel the need to do this and how can i stop it bothering me