I have been dating this girl for about 4 months. Before i got in this relationship i was warned not to be involve in it. You see she is 14 and im 16 and would be 17 in 3 months. Im in high school and she is still in middle school. I met her at some 1st communion. And it turns out my parents knew her parents. Since they used to live in El Salvador. At first she seem smart and innocent. But naive.

I say naive because 2 months ago this guy was trying to talk to her. He talk about her boobs, ***, and lips. He gave her rude compliments. She told me about it. And i told her to stop talking to the guy. She told to not worry about it because the guy was black and shes not into black guys or white guys. Well a week pass and we were at the movies with some friends. Their she was texting with that same guy. She told me that he has changed his attitude and now their friends. The next day i went to her school, and i saw the guy. I recognized him and from what i know he isn't really friendly to our kind (Latinos). I was surprise he got along with my girlfriend. But my girlfriend had friends who were white and black, she was really good looking and she look more white than a latina girl. Anyways It seem as if he was trying to grab her but my girl didn't let herself. I was with my brother and we told him to stop. When he heard us he took of.

But what really made me jealous was a video that i found. My gf was talking with her friend and she told me that my gf is a freak and mention a video. I ask her about it but she just laugh and told me it was nothing. I got curious and i found the video on her friends camera, their it was, my gf and 2 of her girlfriends, their was that guy i told you early and some other dude. They were drinking and playing pool. Then that one guy made a bet if he wins he was going to kiss my girl. When he won he wanted to kiss my girl but she didn't let him. But then she goes to the room to get her purse. Then you see the guy follows her. It seem as 5 minutes had pass and you hear my girl giggle ling. So the girl holding the camera walks in the room and their that guy on top of her kissing her boobs. Then everyone just start laughing. I got mad at my girl and called her a slut. Then she and her friend told im a jerk that's overreacting. They said it was only a bet that it was the guy that try to go over board but she was going to make him stop. I went to tell that nikka who kiss her to leave my girl alone. And he told me my girlfriend been giving him BJ for the past 2 months. I also heard from one of my ex girlfriend that shes been messing with alot of guys. I feel so bad and confused i don't know what to think. Because my other friends say that games like those are pretty normal. That as long as they didn't had sex everything is alright.

You've only been dating for 4 months and that happened, where's the future with her? That's not acceptable, just dump that ho and get a newer hotter girlfriend.