it always happens... but i admit that most of the times it wasn't real love and i got over it easy... but this last time i really loved her just to find out after 4 months that she doesn't like me at all... i am really nice guy... some girls even said that i'm the best guy they ever known... and i don't think that i'm ugly either... i'm average looking...

[WHAT TO DO]:>> Block her PHYSICALLY from every goddamn book there is about the face to the leg! Cut her phone. DO NEVER EVER respond to her emails, SMS. NO MATTER WHAT!

SHOUT "NEXXXT!": many times, till someone pleases you & is here to STAY! YOU CALL the SHOTS here! Duh!

GET SOME SELF-RESPECT DUDE! I'LL GIVE YOU SOME RIGHT AWAY- You're the MAN! You're the coolest thing that chick's seen & her BLINDNESS, DUMB-HEAD or EVOLUTION AIN'T your concern/problem! KICK HER (NOT physically). KICK HER AWAY LIKE FOOTBALL. LOAD it with S.T.Y.L.E.

[It's JUST a "MISMATCH" >> "WHAT breakup?!"]
<The T-SHIRT ANALOGY>: At a mall you see a REALLY artistic, exotic, uber-cool T-Shirt(girl). You think THIS IS 'THE ONE'! You almost buy (marry) it to live happily eva after, but Oops! turns out it's 3(THREE) whole sizes smaller than yours. WHADYA DO?! Put it back to where you picked it from & ShOuT "NEXT!" - THAT'S WHAT!

<The KEYS ANALOGY>: Picture tryin keys(girls) from a bunch to open this door. You pick a key, HOPE it "works", but it DOES NOT! OMG! WHADYADO NOW?! Drop It & Pick The NEXT! THAT'S WHAT! You waste NO time to sit & brood over "Why didn't the key OPEN it for me?" YOU'RE the DOOR! not some KEY! You hold back NUMEROUS GIFTS inside you! This person is ONE of the keys. If this key can't open it- 2BAD, it'll NEVER see your GIFTS! LAUGH! The KEY "MOVES ON"! The DOOR(YOU) STAYS PUT! YOU CALL THE SHOTS!
Ts! Keys! MOVE ONN! Somebody ShOuT "NEXT!"

[PAUSE & PONDER...]:>> Why would you treat ANYONE on priority when you're NOT their priority?
Why would you live with ANYONE that DOESN'T like your company? Why in the HE.CK would you enjoy theirs?
If she doesn't enjoy you, WHY WOULD YOU enjoy her NOT enjoying you? or ENJOY HER AT ALL?!
If she's OK with it, why EVER would you NOT be OK?! If she DOESN’T want it, why EVA would YOU?
If SHE DOESN'T mind it, WHY DO YOU?! Why would you need ANYONE that DOESN'T need you? WHA:O? whY.EVER?!
If SHE DOESN'T WANT you, why EVER would you? Why would you care if SHE DIDN'T care?
Why would you be with someone that's A-OK with FAILING YOU, LETTING YOU DOWN?:O WHY IN THE ACTUAL HE.CK WOULD YOU DO THAT?!
If SHE can be JUST FINE without you, WHY NOT YOU?! WHY EVA WOULD YOU LIVE A LIE?!

Your house(relationship) is broken so that it can be built anew with newer better things(new girl perhaps). So that it can be made stronger, better than ever before. That's how "renovation" works!

[BEATING 'HIM+HER']:>> Be a LION. WHAT the hell needs HER?! Seeing her with 'him'? on fb? KNOW THIS: IT'S NOT YOU! How could she EVER have YOUR(you+her) kinda fun with a SUBSTITUTE of YOURS? YOU+HER is what you think is rosy, NOT HIM+HER! LOL!

HIM is a REPLACEMENT. And JUST WHO IN THE ACTUAL HE.CK COULD REPLACE [YOU]?! LOL! HIM+HER is A GIMMICK, An IMITATION! A CATCH! It looks happier? It's FAKE! IT'S NOT *EVER* = [YOU+HER]!

HOW COULD SHE EVER HAVE YOUR KINDA FUN WITHOUT YOU?! LOL! But B.PITT'S with him, :( - so WHATT?! It's STILL NOT YOU! It can NEVER be YOU!
SNAP outa it! NOW! People THAT care, NNEVERR give you up! STAY PUT. KKICK HER!

[GETTIN A GRIP OVER HER THOUGHTS]:>> Her thoughts are ECHOES.They HAPPEN to you - UNLIKE RADIO CHANNELS! They're garbage stink, unpleasant & pungent, staying even after the garbage truck's gone. But that's just what garbage DOES! IT'S NOT YOU! You walk past a street with garbage & smell stink! You didn't plan on it! So too, you didn't plan to have her thoughts! It's not your fault if you smell garbage :) Would u eva argu wth garbg fr doin wat it dus best- STINK? Keep walking toward fragrance. [SING ALOT]. Get REALLY BUSY with things. Thoughts've GOTTA FADE.

You're JUST fine without her. You still have skin & are breathing. The "breakup" didn't even touch you! You din't/don't EVER need her at all! Trust it. Your self confidence, courage to live fully without her, to show her this, & that you don't care a damn about her, IS success in this dirty mind game!

Long relationship? It's the old houses that're broken to bits to create newer mansions of light, laughter & clarity.

It's just a girl. Some cells, skin, arranged a certain way, period! Breathe deep. DUMP HER, at every level. Let her down. Show her, her place. You can do this. After kicking her royally, you have to help MANY who are in the same state(or worse) as you now, & need help. It's ALL FOR THEM. This whole event is JUST so that you come out of it 100% SUCCESSFUL, tell & share your learnings, experiences & help these people. This is (your secret mission), the final PURPOSE behind the whole situation that's in front of you now

"Some blessings shatter all glasses & windows when they arrive" -- This is sum V.HARD experience in words. Let's say I went through it exclusively 4 you! Tym 4 U nw 2 spread sum LIGHT! Power 2 u!