Sometimes a guy does think longterm about her looks. It is hard for many people to believe these days, but some men really do want marriage and children, and do look at women as potential brides not just bedmates. Of these men, the majority are churchgoing Christians;however, some belong to othger religions, and some simply had such happy childhoods that they are enthusiastic about Family Life and look forward to playing with their own children while they are still young and still have the energy to throw around a football. Marrying men sometimes do consider a woman's looks. Believe it or not, some of them quail at the idea of breast implants, the sort of complications (expensive and horrible medical complications) which arise from silicone, and prefer to think of a woman as "real" or "natural" and able to nurse infants, as opposed to most men who just want to get laid by a "Plastic Doll". Most non-marrying men are really just permanently fixated in an infantile Nursing Stage themselves and so do not think beyoond breast size, and never consider whether that would be a healthy breast for a real infant to suckle. But then again, among the men who just "use" most women for sex, there is often a differentiation between "good" women and "bad" women: the Bad women are available prior to (and frequently throughout) marriage (and beyond) for sexual outlets, and the men really have absolutely no respect for them;whereas, the Good women are virgin brides and, thouigh the husbands cheat, the wives are never allowed to "stray" and are for the purpose of breeding children. Many men cheat throughout their marriages without a single qualm, even bisexually, but woe betide their wives if they are ever caught cheating. It is definitely a double-standard. But to get "back on point": if a man is interested in having children, he will probably consider what your looks will look like combined with his own, and how your looks may show up in HIS children. Usually it is very possessive like that. It is also a common assertion among men that "If her mother is FAT, she will be too", for which there may be some justification.
-Anonymous