It's a long story cut short, but I have trouble finding/making close or solid friendships, that is more than an acquaintance. I used to blame it on myself and try harder, like talk more, or be the one to confide about myself more, and over the last 4 years I have only few good college friends but it doesn't go furthur than that.
I'm wondering if its because I'm expecting or looking for something that can't be given? I just want to find good company where we update eachother and become a part of eachothers lives --- in the adult sense so not like the 'two peas in a pod' friendship like in high school. I think people who have their close knit group of friends are so lucky.
But I notice everyone around me has their own alliance already and I'm just casual 'nice' classmate.
The funny thing is, where most girls my age are more worried about finding the right guy (early twenties), I"m more worried about finding the right friends. I also made very little bonds from high school because I moved schools several times, and moved countries. Which is why I'm unsure about what close friendship is anymore.
But once upon a time I always had that close friendship with someone where we actually tell eachother whats bothering us, confide and support one another.
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I'm wondering if its because I'm expecting or looking for something that can't be given? I just want to find good company where we update eachother and become a part of eachothers lives --- in the adult sense so not like the 'two peas in a pod' friendship like in high school. I think people who have their close knit group of friends are so lucky.
But I notice everyone around me has their own alliance already and I'm just casual 'nice' classmate.
The funny thing is, where most girls my age are more worried about finding the right guy (early twenties), I"m more worried about finding the right friends. I also made very little bonds from high school because I moved schools several times, and moved countries. Which is why I'm unsure about what close friendship is anymore.
But once upon a time I always had that close friendship with someone where we actually tell eachother whats bothering us, confide and support one another.
amanda reading your question is like reading my current life...except im a guy lol I go uni and met heaps of people..but wouldnt call them close friends. Reason being everyone is too busy...i only see the majority of the people i know at uni like once a week in the tutorials. To be honest i expected more from univeristy..i expected to meet the best friends that i will keep in touch with as adults but it seems as though thats not going to happen. Like you i also have little bonds from high school...ive only got a few people from there that i still keep in touch with. Very few who i can call a close friends. Im not shy either as I always initiate conversations with people. Just seems like people are too busy these days. IM me or email me...we might even be going to the same university considering it says the questions asked from australia lol i go macq
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