What kind of guy belittles and insults a girl he's seeing, because he senses she might want more from the relationship than he's willing to give, so he's mean and insults her so she'll like him less, but he's the one that wants to hang out with her, and he's the one that calls to initiate things?

He's 35 and has had 5 girlfriends, 6 sexual partners

The kind of guy that has anger issues, he needs to work on himself, no woman should be with this kind of guy.