i am very wealthy and when i like a guy i spoil them with cars, watches, vacations etc. i was wondering what guys think of women who do this? would you think of them as possible long term relationship material or just someone to use for a gifts and a good time? would you find this emasculating?

Hi Sarah Jane,
Most guys (surprisingly enough) don’t really care as much how much money a woman has. Men’s barbaric (and Im a guy) thoughts still reflect around how you look first. For you , I suppose that’s a good thing. Men who have their acts together will think it is fun at first for you to spend all that money on them, but eventually the male ego will take over and they will begin to feel like a toy. No man likes that feeling. So Sarah Jane, be yourself and spoil him with non material things, and your social status will no longer be an issue for him…..or YOU.