I got close with my guy friend the last few months. Last saturday he told me he visited his ex. well after he broke up with her the first time i told him I liked him and it'd hurt when I'd met her, so he knows it could hurt me. He said he'd had a dream about her, and when i asked what it was he didn't respond. I messaged him on facebook (which I regret) saying I'd miss him if he got back with her (we were seeing each other several times a week but I know this girl took most of his time before). he said he appreciated me and is just trying to be friends with her right now and wanted to see me soon. I responded and said gf's can kinda take over and i can't compete so i had been sad, but then I went on to talk about other stuff. he hasn't responded to my last few texts, and tonight when we went to practice, he seemed subdued and was listening to his ipod a lot instead of talking. He was fairly friendly otherwise though. What do you think is going on and what should I do?

1) He doesn't want to hurt me with the gf stuff so it's awkward
2) I was too clingy and it put him off
3) Something else is bothering him

He just seemed kinda sad. Should I apologize for jumping the gun with worrying about the gf and guilting him about it? I mean honestly the idea broke my heart but that's not fair to him. Also I don't want him to feel like he can't talk to me anymore (cause it might hurt me?)

talk to him i no what its like with gf brobs i think u should chat with him about it and ask him whats he been doing if he was a close frind he would tell u dont give in as im a guy and the guys all ways want the girls to give in trust it might take a bit longer to get it out of him but he will give in and say sorry i think u should try talking and then if he says somethink what u didnt want to here or anytthink just walk away xxx