and spent 6 years with him, we broke up when we were 36)...anyways, this shocked me that he is with a woman who is 11 years younger...we are both 41...he never dated anyone much younger than him ever, an im wondering why he woudl now, i know its not my business but i am curious, i wanted a kids with this man (and i have none now, i wasted my good years with him only to have it go no where)...he knew i wanted the kids, the house (they bought a new home) and marriage, they are getting married in august...when i was with him i mentioned all this and he never talked about it, so we broke up eventually, i still think about him but i dont want him back, but i wondering why he would do this now, when he could have done it with me since we were together for a long time...