Life is so unfair to me of late. I'm a 39yr old female. I'm basically kipping in a spare room in the apartment of my sister's friend at the moment in a tiny room with a SINGLE bed. Basically my landlord made me leave my own apartment as my boss fired me unfairly and then i had no money and fell behind with my rent. This girl i'm staying with is from the posh side of town, reared with a silver spoon. I'm here this past 6 weeks and shes stickin her nose in my affairs. Any guys i want to bring back she seems to look down on. She told me to make myself at home yet she seems to dissaprove of me having a guy back. I know i'm not paying the cow rent (cant afford it right now) and I've had to borrow money of her for a few miserable nights out. Anyhow we are after a massive arguemnt. Basically i met a guy in a bar last night. We got on really well and wanted to have sex. Trouble was my mate ( a fun mate from home) met a guy too and she was in same boat. As this cow who owns the apartment was away, i let my mate & her fella use this princesses double bed. Unfortunately my mate and her fella got a bit carried away and her posh cream walls ended up stained along with a lot of leaking on her mattress & sheets. Also the guy was wearing real heavy cologne and the smell got all over the princess sheets. My mate cleaned up the walls as best she could and used loo roll to soak up most of the leak on her bed. She didnt have a spare set of sheets so what was i supposed to do. I'm after getting a telling off from this cow and am told in future no company back. I told her i was sorry. What age is she, shes only 29. When i was that age i would have laughted it off and not been so serious. How do i handle this interfereing cow?

You claim that you are 39, but from your whining you sound more like 13. If you acted like that in my home I would have thrown you out by now.