It all started from last 7 to 8 months. She is my school best friend. After completing school we have meet each other after seven years. I started liking her as we used to meet occasionally and chat with her most of the times. I have also invited to my home and she came to my home. As the days passed on...she went to US for internship and I really started missing her but I used to chat with her whenever she is online and we used to talk for each other. When she came back to India, I invited her to my B'day party and I felt she is the girl whom I wanted to be in my life forever. So I have proposed her yesterday and tried to convince her so much and I have explained her how much I love her. She understood my feelings but she replied no. I don't understand why she said no. But the wrong thing what I have done is without knowing her opinion on me I have proposed her and it was surprising for her. She said me that we like each other as friends but I don't like you in that sense and we won't make each other. I have said to her I am giving so many confident reasons why we can't be together but she said those all things are secondary first I should like you. I cannot accept you like lover. She said something has happened in the past and it still hurts and things didn't worked for her in the past and now also same thing happens so that why she keep on telling me no. I have said that u are still thinking about the past that it was infatuation and with that reason you are rejecting me. I promised to her whatever be the consequences I am ready to face it all I need is your acceptance than she started saying no again. She said that I want you to go on with your goals and your aims. She keeps on telling am not right choice for you. Our paths are different and we cannot be together. But she keep on saying me please be strong. I told her, I respect your decision and but yourself justify the reasons and you don't need tell me and than say me. But she was very reluctant to even think about or imagine about me like that. she said to me why do you want to waste that remote hope that my decision will change with time. I told her you are saying that I will forget with time and I believe that with time your decision might change and you might start to like me. But she says that her decision won't change and she told sorry for hurting you and asks me will you be fine. I have remained calm and said that its ok but I wanted you to talk with me irrespective of your decision and she replied I will but it all depends on how normal you will be, it will take some time but so try to forget and go head with your goals. So currently working as an electrical engineer and she is completed her medicine(MBBS) and will be leaving to US in 2012 ending. Now I am also planning to go abroad for higher education only for her, but she shattered my world. Now Please tell me guys what should I do know...continue to proceed for higher education and after before going I want to propose her again. And am trying to move things normal with her as previous. Can any one tell me whether she likes me but she is unable to take decision..because we both have so many common friends or really she doesn't like me.

hey dont mind just chill
life is big thing one gone another came in your life
why r u so depress she is also ur friend ....
she is right but ur 100% right in ur arguement.
she is confusing in right & wrong person but you dont take any wrong decision
u also focus on ur career i think u got a better thing & better wife
best of luck