Well first of all,
What should a battle mages attack range be at level 97?
How the heck do people make friends in maplestory? Im really shy too, so that doesnt help.
How does a level 97 battle Mage get money fast?
Great training spots? (for any level)
Is there a website out there that I could use to check how much items usually cost in fm? (btw I'm in khaini)
That's all :) thanks

Basilmarket.com is your friend!

What should a battle mages attack range be at level 97?
Check out this thread: http://www.basilmarket.com/forum/1959251…

How the heck do people make friends in Maplestory?
I often make friends from PQing, or training parties. But try joining a guild! There are tons of nice people that will help you out there. I find my closest friends from guild :).

How does a level 97 Battle Mage get money fast?
Hm... there are a few things you could try out. For example, do quests that will earn you rewards i.e. glove att 60% from Subani's Legacy. Or try doing the scarga quests. Lam gives some nice rewards. ^__^

Great training spots?
I find this guide sooo much help: http://www.basilmarket.com/MapleStory-Gu…

Is there a website out there that I could use to check how much items usually cost in fm?
Again, try using BasilMarket. Sign up for an account, add a player (BasilID -> Players) and you can then use the search function to find the item you want to sell. The prices are typically a bit lower on Basil because you auction your item rather than buying a shop permit. Try adding on to the top bid by +5-10%

Hope this helps! Have fun & enjoy the game :)