I met my bf 3 years ago & before i ever messed around with him i asked him several times if he had any thing that i could get & if he had been checked recently & all that good stuff. He told me yes everytime i asked. When i had a bump 'down there' 2 years ago i asked again about it to make sure & he said he didnt have anything & never cheated so it wasnt anything to worry about. (i was checked right before him & was clean) & now this year while we were talking about how he used to sleep around alot i mentioned it, "glad you got checked after you were like that" or something he said he didnt get tested & he had told me that. I was speachless...like, thats not something you lie to your girlfriend about. Anyways, he said he never had reason to...which is stupid because he slept with a tonnnn of people before me. Most were drunken one night stands. So now im very conserned & think i may have herpes. Today i asked him about a couple bumps he had on his ...well you know..and he said its scares from rough sex. . but they were like bubble looking things...So now...im really worried about probably having herpes. What am i going to do?

Also, I dont think he knows he has it....or is just denying it. But i love this man. 3 years & we are so happy with everything. I tried to tell him i was conserned today but he didnt want to listen. But this & telling me who he's been with before me are the only real problems we really have. He almost broke up with me once because i wanted to know who he has slept with (to get a better idea as to if he's been with all right people or only with easy girls that sleep with everyone) He will not tell me. In 3 years thats what he has gotten the most mad at me for..asking that. I dont understand it.

Only one answer for that get yerself tested!
OMG, if your finding strange things were they shouldn't be go see the doc's now!
If he can't be arsed then i am afraid you must get rid of him.
You say you love him well he obviously don't give 2 shits about you to not get tested.
Get tested, if results are positive, prove it to him, get treatment and if he goes mad about it and refuses to believe he has a problem, then I am sorry you have gotta ditch that looser!

Book yourself into the doctors tomorrow!