so i've been intrested in this girl for a while... i resently started geting her, we kissed for a while

but there is this guy i have known for mabey 3 years, i only known her for around 1 year...
but he told me she is using me, for confort and to feel safe and fun if she is borred, but i really REAALY REALLY like this girl so i don't know what to do i got another freind we both know i'm thinking about telling her my situation, she knows how he feels about this girl already, but i hope he is just angry cause he didn't get her i REALLY REALLY HOPE thats what it is...

but i really want a way to tell if she just is playing me or if she is serious...
im not the kind of guy who get a ton of girls... i'm mostly the nice guy who have alot of female freinds, but it dosn't matter i don't need alot of girls i need ONE girl to make me happy :)

but im moving when school starts, i'll be coming home every 2 weeks, but i really want to make it work between us without knowing she is out makingout with other guys...

i've been crying for a while cause i was moving away for her but now im crying ccause im woried she dosn't really love me...

some of her freinds said she changes alot, im not sure how fast alot is but meh :/

Listen to your friends advice! Before anything try find EXACTLY what is going on is she or isnt she a player. Ive had these problems with friends, always listen to your best friends and the closest!

She may be using you not a nice thing to be honest.. But every girl can be tamed its the same with guys! You need to find what keeps them there in the relationship, wont get bored, wont seem like there being used and for god heavens dont make promises you cant keep!