I've been in a great relationship for over 5 years now, completely happy with a guy who has become my best friend. We've lived together for a few years and its been awesome. We enjoy each others company and are never truly bored with each other.

We have mostly the same very good friends from college but everyone has gone their own way since then. I know I'll always have these old friends, its just we've been living in a new city for about a year and have been practically friendless. We are both a bit antisocial and a little nerdy. We like to stay at home a lot. So I know why we don't have friends—we have no desire to make them—I just sometimes wonder if this is okay.

We have our families and friends who are far away and it feels like each other is all we need right now. Hanging out with other people sounds like an inconvenience and a hassle and doesn't feel worth it. We are not mean or crazy people, our interests just lend themselves to not-so-social tendencies. We have both been really great friends to other people, but of course our relationship has kind of isolated us from the outside world.

I don't want to get married anytime soon, but I figure we will eventually. I wonder who I would invite? Who would be part of the wedding? I wonder if I should just continue to be happy and not worry about new friends. Or if I should think about what I want later, whatever that is?

I know I have to answer a lot of these questions for myself, but I was just curious if anyone had any experience/thoughts to share with me. Thanks! :)

Personally, I would say it is slightly weird, If I were you, I would be around my friends more than hanging with my boyfriend. With your boyfriend you can be with him in your spare time, this is going to sound nasty, but relationships can work out, and some do not, what if your relationship isnt going as good as you actually think, you may believe that you are both the perfect couple, but may couples break up, whereas friends, they are always there for you, no matter what happens, friends stay friends forever x.

When you are planning your wedding, well if you decide to take that on board, remember you always have family!