So ive been best friends with this guy (im a girl) for just over 4 years and i guess we have always deep down had feelings for each other but because we were both in relationships the whole time we didnt do anything. Right now we are both single and im going to go visit him next week. Do you think that if we ended up hooking up it would be a good thing, would it ruin the friendship or is it a case of finally getting what we both really want, he did tell me he had the hots for me the other day