There are plenty of people doing it now. I'm not going to be one of them though. I don't think I could chase after a toddler at this point.

Absolutely not. Recent research has proven the, with the help of modern medicine the safe age for childbearing is no longer 35, but 40 to 45. The risk factors are very low for healthy women in their 40's to have children. Just make sure she sees a good ob/gyn and makes all of her appointments and everything will be fine.

Good luck, congratulations on finding real love, and may God bless you and your future family!