I really can't tell at his point but I am giving it a few more days. Started a new job out of town and has been acting very different. Says he is confused on everything in life. Told me I had to deal with seeing him on weekends only since he moved then when we git married My daughter and I would have to move there where he is. I said okay anything for our family. Then it was like it made it worse. I dont know what to do anymore but back off and pray. Has anyone had any experience with this saying? If you let something go and it comes back it was meant to be and yours to keep? I love him so much but I fear he wont be back to keep.

I recently read the book "Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus". It talked about the main differences between how men act in relationships vs. women. One of the main points was how men sometimes need to pull away in order to actually grow closer to their partner. The reason for this being that sometimes they feel they need their space, and after they have satisfied that need, they realize that they need you even more. It is a common cycle that occurs at any stage in a relationship and the more women can understand that, the easier it will be for them to make it through these "rough patches". In your case it sounds like there is a lot more to it that just "space" but I think it could be related. Just give him room, but don't act like you don't care. Sometimes the best way to show you care is to give him time.