Hello friends.iam 27yrs old. Iam in love with my guy(who is 28) since 5 yrs.last year i informed my parents about him. But they refused to even meet him, just because he is from a different caste.my guy did try to meet my parents.but they didnt let him.he did not involve his parents because it would only make matters worse.my parents cleary told my guy(over the phone) that they do not wish to meet him or his parents.this eventually lead to our break up.since my parents were so adamant, i thought it would be best to part ways.though the guy did not want to let go.we broke up.in the mean time my parents almost fixed my marriage. thats when i realised my mistake.fortunately that match was cancelled. i patched up with my bf after 8 months.i have once again told my parents about the guy and even now they have the same caste objection.
i dont know what to do to solve this issue.i love my guy and i want my parents too.am i wrong? also i go out with my bf for movies and lunch. is it wrong? should i stop it?

It is important that parents want your well being. They must not have liked your friendly simply bcause they think you have been brought up in different set of circumstances. It is also possible that your parents must have got investigated about your friends background etc. Whichever it may, but fact remains you love this guy. For this, I sugest you again bring up the subject and remove all the misgivings that they may be having. Half your problems will be solved if you show sincerity in your effort. Bring that boy to your parents, despite their not meeting. Involve one of your near relations but inform that relation everthing about your relationship and his background and other antecetends. Certainly, there can be a way out. If object is based only on caste based then your parents have to introspect deep and take into account your life and future. You, then, have the final right to act in whatever way you think. But, for heaven's sake do not take any hasty steps, which may put you and your parents and your boy friends red faced in the eyes of the people at large. You also venture to meet his parents and convince them to meet yours so as to solve this festering problem. Please think logically, act compassionately that is good for you, your boy friend and the parents at both sides. Compromise solution for your benefit could be the right solution. And, if nothing comes out of the above efforts, you have your life to spend. Act as your heart and mind tell and take the final course.