Knew her for 9months. We went to the same college. She has many guy friends so figured I had no chance. Tuesday night we were texting and I asked her how everything was. She told me the same but that "SHE HAS A boyfriend LOL". This was the first time we spoke in three weeks. I figured I had nothing to lose and told her I had feelings for Her for a while. She said told she's SURPRISED and had no idea I liked her. We talked a little bit until she told me she's going to bed. She text me good night and told me to sleep good.

Before I told her how I felt and found out she got a boyfriend, she wanted to hang out. Sunday night at the movies I ended up seeing her. She was there with some girlfriends. Her friends were looking at me and she pretended to not see me. My best friend told me to go TALK to her. After me and my friends bought our tickets I looked at her and she was looking at me I waved and she waved back. Was I being INCONSIDERATE?

you were not being inconsiderate. ill tell you right off the bat when she was pretending not to see you, she was whispering to her friends "see that guy over there with the blue shirt ? yea he told me the other day that hes liked me for the longest time" then they said, "really? oh he's cute/ ugly" and she'll say i know righttt ? lol.i bet during this time her friends were looking at you. i would have advised against going to talk to her though, because since shes with her friends it would have been kind of awkward. my thoughts are: 1. do you really wanna be with a girl who has a lot of guy friends and pretends to not see you at the theatre with her friends ? this makes you think, maybe if there was a relationship i would get jealous sometimes. and the whole not seeing you thing is like a guy acting diff with his gf in front of his friends its not cool. maybe she isnt interested? do you know if the bf exists? have you sen him ? you say "whats new" and she says "nothing but i have a bf." like right off the bat. she knew you had a thing for her trust me, shes just trying to play it off. she sounds really arrogant, but if you really like her, i say let her be and let her come to you. she will if she wants to trust me. she will also let you know or give you clear signals if shes not interested. good luck