I have been dating this boy for over a year. i always think hes the one i want to marry. im 19. he 20. i adore him and i can spend the rest of my life with him. BUT!!! i have a crush on someone else now. and its distracting me. its like a little school girl crush. and i work with him too. hes a big sweetie. and my type. my boyfriend isnt my type but i love him anyway. i know its wrong. but i cant help this stupid huge crush. im trying soooooooo hard not to. and its making me sick to my stomach.. so what do i do about it?

well speaking from experience of settling down early your not ready, you in puppy love right now. what you are feeling for your co worker is totally natural, you young, live as such. explore your options. don't cheat or anything but if you have feelings for someone else then there is obviously something lackig in the relationship that you have right now. It might not be a problem that is easy to put your finger on but its there. if you were truly 100% happy you woulnd't have feelings for the other guy. For the love of everything sacred don't get married or engaged until your at least 21 if your relationship is strong enough and pure enough with your bf you can wait that long. the divorce rate is to high, so many people go ahead and get married just so they can wear the fancy dress and be the center of atention, make sure your doing it for the right reasons. and obviously sort your romantic issues out.