a so-called friend that i confided in betrayed me hatefully...she spoke of everything that i told her, she even added a few judgements of her own (she trash talked me and her friend told m abt it). i didnt know she hated me that much. funny thing is, she confided in me too and i have NEVER berayed her. even to this day, never repeated a thing she told me, i value friendship to the fullest, and i was naive to think that everyone does. she now acts as if i'm the bad guy because i cut her out my life without a confrontation. she has no idea why i dropped her. how shud i handle this? the last thing i want is a confrontation, i'm too grown for that. but i'm really hurting

Good for you that you have respect,feelings, and morals in that you didn't go behind her back and talk about her. Even when she did it to you, you still took the high road and didn't say a word. Too bad we can't say the same about her. If I were you I would ask her why she did that because keeping all those hurt feelings inside will just keep eating at you and you will never have closure. Make sure that if you decide to meet up with her that it's in a public place with lots of witnesses just in case she doesn't take too lightly with what you're going to tell her. After that, if she decides to be a woman about it and apologize to you than YOU make the decision in whether you want to keep her in your life or not.