So I apologize in advance if this being long...also sorry for any grammar mistakes im not really editing

I cant move on from my ex I honestly loved him more then anyone ever in my life I understand im fairly young im in college and know there will probably many more guys ill love in my life but im just having such a hard time moving on, we went through some really hard times together he killed someone in an accident and i was there for him through it all and really care about him... I know its my own fault that I cant move on because for the past year me and my ex have still been hooking up and hanging out... I even still spend time with his family on holidays and just for fun(thier like my second family)... Id be fine just being normal friends but for some reason i still hook up with him because I just cant say no to him and for some dumb reason I think things are gonna work out however being that its been a year and he still hasent changed and still just wants to just be hook up buddies I know I need to move on and accept hes not going to change, everyone has told him hes dumb for not being with me and can see I truely care about him, his brother in law just a few weeks ago made me promise I wouldent give up on him because he said he needs someone like me but he just cant see it himself, hes told his brother in law that maybe in the future we could try things again but not right now...anytime ive told him that I love him and want to get back together he tells me he does love me and just cant date or says idk, or that I deserve better then him, or some other rediculous reason, last week I asked him if he cared at all about our relationship or if I was just a piece of a** to him and he responded I dont know, that hurt really bad and im just at the point were I know I need to move on I just dont know how! Ive been with other guys but I just see them as friends I dont know if I just havent met someone I like enough or if its my ex holding me back, what should I do? I wanna still be friends with my ex but I need to move on

Cut him out! Seriously this guy is not doing yourself any favors, telling you "you deserve better", yes you do deserve better.Its not fair for him to make promises of "in the future" that keeps you hanging on. He's having his cake and eating it but having sex with you but with non strings attached, what man wouldn't love that! I know how you feel, i was in a similar situation, sometimes you really just can't be friends with an ex, its harsh but true, what you need is to have some time away from your ex, like i said just cut him out, go and experience life, enjoy yourself and meet new people and in a year or two from now, you will be a completly different person. You will get over him!