i have this friend of mine whom i very much love. but she has lost faith and trust in long term relationships and she is interested in small flings and one night stands. if the other person gets serious then she dumps him before he can do something. this behaviour of her is morally totally unacceptable as this is not our culture. she was not like this 6-7 months back.i have tried to make her understand that what she is doing is wrong and bring back her faith in true relations but she is not showing any positive attitude. she told me everything because she had some trust in me and hoped that i would understand. no-one knows this except me. but i just cant think of how to change this attitude of hers. she doesn't want to change because she says its what makes her happy. i did tell her my feelings but she told me that she doesn't trust or love anyone and only likes me as a friend and i should accept her as she is.please help and tell me how to make her change!

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