So I am 21 and I am a virgin, because I was raised that way and I think is important for a woman to have her first time with a man she really loves and who really loves him. But.. I was talking with a really good guy friend of mine (I don't like him) and he was telling me that I am "the exception to the rule" he said many girls of my age have already had multiple partners... So if I have a bf, that boyfriend is older than me, would he expect me to have sex with him right away??? I want to wait, to see if I really truly love that person and if that person feels the same for me... What do you think?