So to make a long story short, me and my ex who I spent my whole year focused on and being really great too dumped me because she said I didn't "get her." About 3 weeks later she gets a new boyfriend who used to be a good friend of hers. I was really torn up about this and super depressed. We haven't talked since but we often look at each other in class. Her friend was talking to me the other night and asking how I was doing and stuff and I told her how upset I've been and why I'm so confused still because I thought she really cared about me. Her friend then went and talked to my ex telling her I was still super confused and all that and my ex told her that she feels really bad and she wants to talk but she doesn't know what to say to make things right or make me "feel better". Just hearing this made me hopeful that she still cared but then the next day I was looking at her blog that she doesn't know I know about and she said "I can't wait till school ends so I can leave all this drama, why can't everyone just hate me so my life will be easier" now I'm bummed again because this makes me think she doesn't really care and she just lied to her friend. What should I do guys? Please someone help!!

Honestly when it is Ex's involved.. just leave it be, you need to force your mind to stop caring. Focus your mind on something else, I know how difficult is is believe me, I've been through similar things and it has pretty much ruined my life. You don't have to get to that stage though.

I know it isn't the answer you want to hear but it is the one that will eventually help you the most.

Try and get over it and forget about it, get some new hobbies, do anything to take your mind off it. Eventually when you make it through.. you'll be a stronger and better person for it and you'll meet someone else in time when you will learn how to care once more.