Everytime i intend to even "just" be good friends with a man, he eventually falls in love with me. They say things like i am the best they can ever find blah! and then i feel responscible for ruining their lives. This happened with 3 guys in the last year and i cant seem to get this guilt out of me. Is it really my mistake? I dont know why i feel tis way but sometimes i feel like what goes around comes back around and if i made them fall so madly in love with me, some1 will do the same to me. I dont know what to do..